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One of the most common sources of stress is the conflict between work and family. Since we are living in a productivity-driven society, there are more and more people who are finding it difficult to adequately fulfill their roles both at home and at the workplace. Most of the time, workers are not able to find a point of balance when it comes to their careers and their families, as there is always one that is given the more priority than the other. And because of this, it has become the root of a lot of problems.

Therefore, it is essential that people learn how to achieve balance when it comes to work and family life. It may seem like a very daunting tasks but a lot of people have already done this, which means that there is no reason why you can’t do it.

 

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How do you know if you’re ready for a relationship?

 

Now that you have met someone, you feel like you’re at your happiest place, yet after a failed relationship you want to make sure that you are really ready for a relationship this time around. You don’t want that person as your rebound because you want things to be real between the two of you.

 

Here are some things to help you determine if you’re ready for a relationship:

 

You’re Not Holding Back Anymore

 

This means that you’re not holding onto the memories of your past relationship. Sure, you go to your ex’s Facebook profile from time to time but you don’t get the feeling that you get before when you’re still moving on from the breakup. Now, things are normal. You don’t wish for you and your ex to get back together anymore.

 

You Don’t Feel Bitter When People Around You are Getting Committed

 

So, it seems like most of your friends are getting into relationships, while others are getting engaged and others getting married. And you’re happy with that. You don’t feel bitter even if you’re still single. In fact, you are so thrilled for them that you are very supportive and happy for them.

 

You Are Very Clear on What You Want and Do Not Want from a Person

 

This time around, you have a clear idea of the qualities that you want and don’t want from a person. You have this determination to say “no” to someone if that means compromising what you’re looking for just to say that you’re dating someone or you have someone in your life. Also, you find yourself upfront when you find that the whole thing won’t work out.

 

You are fulfilled in Friendships

 

Single, so what? You have your friends with you and you’re very happy with that. You love spending time with them and you’re enjoying being with them.

 

You’re Not Afraid of Being Single

 

There are some people who dread singlehood. It’s as if it’s the plague. But you? Oh, you’re fine with being single. In fact, you love it because you get to do all the things you want. Sure, it may get lonely sometimes but you know that you will find someone soon enough but right now, you’re going to enjoy your freedom as a single person.

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Do you agree that good-looking people have it all? Do you think that they are better simply because they are good looking? As much as we want to say that physical looks don’t matter, but in this superficial world that we live in, it is very difficult to not appreciate the good-looking people.

 

If good-looking people have it better, does that mean that the normal-looking ones are doomed? Does that mean that they don’t have it better because of their looks? To be honest, there are some situations that is a YES. There are some times when you want to be as good-looking as that person to have the same privilege.

 

As much as image is very powerful, it still remains to be superficial and at the end of the day, we all know that the superficialities in this world don’t matter at all.

 

You know what the good news is? Each and every one of us is beautiful in our own ways and beauty is actually a construction. It is so easy to replicate the job with just the right formula. In fact, the world’s sexiest CEO have something in common above and beyond sex appeal: practiced self-confidence. In fact, in a job interview this is really the key to get that job and go up that career ladder.

 

As we are all aware, self-confidence plays such a very important role in our lives as well as with your physical appearance. You may not be as gorgeous as that supermodel but when you have it, you will look better than that supermodel. Why? This is simply because it denoted a kind of take-charge attitude that appeals to everyone and hey, it is very tough to fake. It has to be built over time. On the other hand, good looks are very easy to replicate. You are very much aware of the various cosmetic methods and makeups out there that can enhance one’s look to make it even better.

 

Since we are talking about good looks and how replicating it is easy, here are some amazing tips to replicate it.

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There are some things that you are not ALLOWED to do while you’re in your 20’s. These are the things that will ruin the whole experience for you. So, read on!

 

Get Married or Engaged

 

Okay, so there are a lot of people in their 20’s, mostly late 20’s, who are getting engaged or married – then this may be acceptable. However, if you are on the early side of 20’s, don’t think about it or you’re just going to throw your life away.

 

The Desire to Settle Down

 

At this point, never admit that all you want is to settle down with someone you love, build a family and be surrounded by children and friends. Oh come on.

 

Get an Unprofessional Job

 

When it comes to your career or getting a job, don’t settle for something unprofessional. Don’t get a job that people feel free to be disrespectful about. At this age, this is the perfect foundation to for an awesome job, so get yourself one.

 

Go After a Job in the Arts

 

So, you love the arts and you love to pursue this right away. However, can you save it for later? Later meaning when you have money saved up and you’ve experienced the corporate world, travelled and seen the world? You know to yourself the pursuing arts as early as now only give you slim chances of succeeding. You have a lot of opportunities right now to succeed, so take them!

 

Make a Decision Not to Have Kids

 

Tell yourself that you don’t see yourself having kids because you’re just not that kind of person. Start looking for ways to ensure that you’ll never have to worry about it.

 

Live In Your Hometown

 

Just because you’re happy there and you have a hob, life, and a group of friends that you really enjoy. Oh no, that sucks.

Read more: Things to Avoid Doing in Your 20s

There are certain things that you should avoid saying to someone. Most of the time, the words that you say can actually hurt someone so much and once they are said, you can never take it back. That is why it is very important that you are always careful when you’re going to say something especially if you’re angry or you tend to blurt out obnoxious statements most of the time.

 

To help you out, here are some things that you want to avoid saying because this can shatter the hearts of other people and it can also get easily misinterpreted:

 

“I don’t care”

 

This gets misinterpreted most of the time. Usually, this sentence carries a different meaning. For some people, it means that they should leave you alone because you have better things to do and you don’t have time to listen to them. See? That is why it is important that you think about it before you say it. Instead of saying you don’t care, why don’t you let them know that you would love to hear more about it but right now is not the best time because you got your hands full, but you would love to listen to it once you’re not busy anymore.

 

“You’re wrong”

 

And you’re right? Go for more tactful sentences. And make sure that you ask questions so that the other person will really feel that you’re trying your very best to understand where he or she is coming from, not instantly saying that they’re wrong. Hear their side first before anything else and instead of telling them that they’re wrong, go for something more understanding and pleasant to the ears.

Read more: Sentences That You Should Avoid Saying

What happens when your best friend whom you love so much comes with a bit of baggage? And it’s not a Gucci luggage, unfortunately but a man that comes along with her. Unfortunately, this guy is someone who you don’t like at all. How do you move past the disgust for him and continue the friendship and love that you have for your best friend?

 

We’ve all see or been a part of this scenario: You have the most amazing best friend. She is everything to you and then a man comes along and now your best friend thinks that he’s everything. Your best friend swoons and falls in love and is so sure that he is the one for her. Maybe he is. Regardless, her love for him? It baffles you! You look at her, you look at him and you look back again and you find yourself wanting to say “Seriously?!!”

 

How many of you have been in this kind of situation? There are some people who have been recently than others and it makes an ever difficult situation because as much as you hope her other half doesn’t factor into the friend equation, he does!

 

What Should You Do?

 

What do you think you should do? Do you tell her your real thoughts that the man she love sis such a… well, not the best person for her and that you are 100% sure that there are better fishes in the sea?

 

Well, maybe this is one way, but to be honest, with an approach like that there is a great risk of it causing even more of a rift in your friendship, where she starts to feel uncomfortable around you. Surely, you’re not a fan of those kinds of moments in treasured friendships.

 

A better way to do this would be to lovingly explain that while you adore her and would do anything for your friendship, you’d kind of prefer it spending time with him was something you didn’t have to add to your to-do list, and maybe she’d be OK leaving him and all talk of him at home.

Read more: What to Do When You Don't Like Your Best Friend's Man

Arguing is very common in relationship, whether you like it or not. If you are in a relationship, you can’t avoid arguments. Here are the common reasons why couples fight:

 

Money

 

A lot of couples fight over their finances at some point, most likely more than once. Whether it’s about not having enough or where to spend the money that you do have, money is never an easy thing to discuss. To deal with money issues, be open and honest about how much you have and how much you need. Set a weekly or monthly budget and stick to it. You have to set up savings accounts for items that you want to buy. It is also important that you don’t spend more than you have. Also, you have to make paying bills your top priority. Last but not the least, set a small sum aside from something small from which you can both benefit.

Read more: 3 Common Things Couples Fight about

Every one of us wants to be heard but sometimes it can be difficult to be heard sometimes as well. It may be because some of us make use of big words because they sound better regardless of whether they know what those words mean or not. However, have you ever thought about just speaking plainly and just simply expressing clearly what you have to say in order for everyone to understand it?

 

Sure, some of us will find it difficult to speak plainly but there are simple rules that you can follow:

 

Acknowledge and Honor the Idea

 

When it comes to speaking clearly, it starts and ends with the idea. You have to avoid qualifying yourself too much. Sure, it is fine to express uncertainly when you are uncertain, most of the time people soften their ideas by phrasing them as things that they believe or think or feel. They present these facts as opinions and opinions as feelings, which make it impossible to deal with the actual substance of the idea being spoken. You don’t want to do that – and the best way for you to do would be to stand behind what you say and take the risk of being wrong.

 

Just be you!

 

When speaking, it is always important that you just be yourself. Many times when you are not speaking un-plainly is because you are trying to appear to be someone else that you’re not. Someone who is smarter, better educated, etc. You start to hide the real you behind a screen of words that you would never use otherwise. Don’t you find this odd? If the idea itself is yours, then why should you pretend to be someone else?

Read more: Rules to Speak Plainly and Be Heard

Every one of us wants to be heard but sometimes it can be difficult to be heard sometimes as well. It may be because some of us make use of big words because they sound better regardless of whether they know what those words mean or not. However, have you ever thought about just speaking plainly and just simply expressing clearly what you have to say in order for everyone to understand it?

 

Sure, some of us will find it difficult to speak plainly but there are simple rules that you can follow:

 

Acknowledge and Honor the Idea

 

When it comes to speaking clearly, it starts and ends with the idea. You have to avoid qualifying yourself too much. Sure, it is fine to express uncertainly when you are uncertain, most of the time people soften their ideas by phrasing them as things that they believe or think or feel. They present these facts as opinions and opinions as feelings, which make it impossible to deal with the actual substance of the idea being spoken. You don’t want to do that – and the best way for you to do would be to stand behind what you say and take the risk of being wrong.

 

Just be you!

 

When speaking, it is always important that you just be yourself. Many times when you are not speaking un-plainly is because you are trying to appear to be someone else that you’re not. Someone who is smarter, better educated, etc. You start to hide the real you behind a screen of words that you would never use otherwise. Don’t you find this odd? If the idea itself is yours, then why should you pretend to be someone else?

Read more: Rules to Speak Plainly and Be Heard

Creativity is important. You don’t have to be an artist, a writer, or a musician to be creative. No matter who you are, what your job is, what you love to do, etc. injecting some creativity on it will make things better and enjoyable. We all have our own creative side. However, not everyone knows how to unleash it. Some people find it so easy to be creative while others have a hard time.

 

In order to start being creative, and not just today or for a special task but for every single day, you have to start seeing the world with fresh eyes.

 

Envisage the Mess

 

Do you remember how Da Vinci works? He throws paint filled sponges onto the wall and envisages what he sees. That doesn’t mean that you have to splat paint all over the walls for you to be creative. There’s an easier way: ink splats. Just examine those ink splats and see.

Read more: Be Creative Every Day

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